For the Love of Tradition: Chapter 3

The final part of our wedding traditions series explores the single major act performed during your nuptials: the vows. Silver Sycamore delves into a little bit of history and several ideas on how to make them entirely yours.



Traditional vows can be traced back to the Book of Common Prayer, the singular title for a series of prayer books from the Church of England and other Anglican bodies. The first was published in 1549 and in it were the traditional wedding vows that are commonly used today: “To have and to hold from this day forward, for better for worse, for richer for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, till death us do part.”

Though these vows are still very much a part of modern-day ceremonies, it’s often possible to incorporate your own vows into the mix—whether you’re replacing the age-old recitation or simply adding on to it before or after. These can be inspired by a poem, a movie, a song or simply the words you wish to be a part of the vows you exchange with your loved one.

If your religious ceremony restricts the ability to personalize your vows, there are still a few other ways to incorporate a special message. Scripture readings, songs that are sung or even poems recited aloud are meaningful details that can exemplify you and your partner’s feelings for each other.

Whether you’re tying the knot on our property or simply joining Silver Sycamore for your reception, we can help you coordinate everything from your vows to the getaway car.